## Put Yourself in These Situations:
### Scenario 1:
You're at a community dinner. Someone keeps making comments about your appearance that make you uncomfortable. It's not quite harassment, but it doesn't feel right. You're not ready for a direct conversation.
**What would you do?**
- Silently endure it?
- Leave the community?
- Use our anonymous feedback system?
### Scenario 2:
You notice that the same person consistently takes more than their share of resources, leaving less for others. You've seen others notice too, but nobody wants to create conflict.
**What would you do?**
- Hope someone else addresses it?
- Confront them directly?
- Use our anonymous feedback system?
### Scenario 3:
During meetings, one community member frequently speaks over others, especially quieter voices. It's creating an imbalance in decision-making.
**What would you do?**
- Stop participating in meetings?
- Call them out publicly?
- Use our anonymous feedback system?
## How It Actually Works:
1. **You submit anonymous feedback** about a specific behavior (not about the person)
2. **Your feedback joins others** - Individual comments remain private and anonymous
3. **When a pattern emerges** (5+ similar comments), the person receives a notification:
"Several community members have expressed that [behavior] has impacted them"
4. **Support activates automatically** - The person isn't alone in addressing the feedback
5. **The community holds space** for growth and change, not punishment
## Why This Matters:
* No single person bears the burden of difficult conversations
* Patterns become visible before they break community bonds
* Everyone has a voice, especially in uncomfortable situations
* We learn and grow together with dignity intact
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*Our community believes in addressing issues early, supportively, and with care for everyone involved.*